Nice Jewish Girl

i know how you feel. I may only be in my late twenties but it has been a struggle for me too. It seems life in london is very much the same as in the US. I cant tell you how many 'wooses' I have been out with. By the way a 'woose' is a 'wet lettuce'. Bascially a boy who doesnt knows what he whats out of life, wont open up to you, boring, not stable, and fundamentally not a man. Ahhh to find man would be amazing. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but here in London there are very few. Also a 'woose' lacks one other vital ingrediant 'a sense of humour'. These qualities, stable, humour I think are very important when finding a man to spend your life with. While I am on my soapbox, I feel that men or should I say boys dont understand girls/women. They are brought up too spoilt with mummy and daddy, get a job, live with guys until they reach there 30's and think oh may i should settle down. There dont realise that females are serious when we say that our biological clock is ticking. This is why men have 'time-bound mitzvahs' - to teach them how to use a clock. Its alright for a man he can father child at practically any age, Charlie Chaplin fathered one at 80. So I say to you that it is not your fault you are in this state of affairs. A while ago an article was published in a Jewish paper in London. It commented on perticular neighbourhoods around the world that seemed to have a high amount of Jewish singles living in it, i.e Katamon in Israel, and an apartment block in Hendon, London known as Danescroft. The woman who wrote the article must have been married and in her early twenties, because she said that woman of today would rather concentrate on their careers than finding a man. What absolute rubbish, woman only say that to take the spotlight of them, I should have written back in disgust but, should have would have...never mind. Anyway, what all this shows us is that we are not alone and it is very difficult to meet that special someone frum or not frum. Life is for living so dont let it get you down. i hope Israel is turnnig out to be a good idea it helped me i hope it will help you. and the puppy?
i know how you feel. i am from london nearing my 30's, up until a few months ago i didnt know what to think about how everyone is suppose to have a beshert. I believed it but wanted to know how it really felt to finally find him. To share love and life with someone else. I am not sure if this is what what you want to hear or if life has suddenly turned around for you as well, but when it does and it will knock you senseless.